Posts Tagged ‘prostitution’

Girls going wild in red light district

August 31, 2013

So you think you will dance? Sometimes things are not what they seem. Men, women and children are trafficked – tricked, forced and exploited in the sex industry. Awareness campaign created by Duval Guillaume Modem and produced by monodot in support of STOP THE TRAFFIK.

Music: a-shja by Raveyards vs. DJ Uinkxxx

Sex in Thailand

July 4, 2013

Girls from poor villages go to work in the sex bars in Bangkok. They earn $100 per month for which they have to sell Lady Drinks and go off with at least five men. Each time they go off with a man, the bar gets paid a Finders Fee. What the girls do when they go off with a man, what they charge, is their choice. When a man walks into a bar, they are mobbed by the girls.

The model is very similar to that described in Eleven Minutes, where Maria works in a bar in Geneva. The only difference is that the girls are expected to go off with three men every night, and it is the men who approach the girls. The other main difference is that the girls are international, not Swiss.

The main lure for the girls is not the money they earn in the sex bars, what they are after is catching a foreign husband, which is seen as a high status symbol. The girls also use the net, one of the girls spending half her salary on using the internet to try and hook a foreign husband.

Maria

January 26, 2011
Paulo and Maria 2002

Paulo and Maria 2002

“At every moment of our lives we all have one foot in a fairy tale and the other in the abyss.”

“When we meet someone and fall in love, we have a sense that the whole universe is on our side… And yet if something goes wrong, there is nothing left! How is it possible for the beauty that was there only minutes before to vanish so quickly? Life moves very fast. It rushes from heaven to hell in a matter of seconds.”

“If I must be faithful to someone or something, then I have, first of all, to be faithful to myself.”

“If I’m looking for true love, I first have to get the mediocre love out of my systems.”

“Anyone who has lost something they thought was theirs forever finally come to realize that nothing really belongs to them.”

“The art of sex is the art of controlled abandon.”

“Passion makes a person stop eating, sleeping, working, feeling at peace. A lot of people are frightened because, when it appears, it demolishes all the old things it finds in its path.”

“In love, no one can harm anyone else; we are each of us responsible for our own feelings and cannot blame someone else for what we feel.”

“The great aim of every human being is to understand the meaning of total love. Love is not to be found in someone else, but in ourselves; we simply awaken it. But in order to do that, we need the other person. The universe only makes sense when we have someone to share our feelings with.”

Pain and suffering are used to justify the one thing that brings only joy: love.

“Considering the way the world is, one happy day is almost a miracle.”

From the diary of Maria, the prostitute in Eleven Minutes. Also posted by Paulo Coelho on his blog.

Eleven Minutes by Paulo Coelho is the story of Maria, a Brazilian girl who is enticed to work in Switzerland and ends up working as a well-paid prostitute.

Danish composer Stig Nordestgaard turned Eleven Minutes into a musical.

For my lovely friend Polina who read Eleven Minutes in English, then Russian. And for my lovely friend Alisa at whose suggestion I read Eleven Minutes.